Why is criticism so hard for us to accept? Is it often a knee-jerk reaction of anger at the idea that someone would dare to question our expertise? Does this most often occur when we have our own doubts about what we said?
Is the pain of criticism often reflective of the critic? If we respect the person criticizing, does that make it harder or easier to accept?
Is it worth reflecting on criticism? Can we learn from it, even it is unfair? Can we learn from this different perspective?
Do we often take criticism personally? Does this interfere with our ability to consider the criticism with an open mind?
“There is only way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing and be nothing.”–Aristotle
Is it a self-esteem issue? Is it an ego issue? Does the problem really have to do with our concern over what others think of us and of the criticism? Do we agonize over the critic’s intentions?
How do you respond to criticism? Do you welcome it as an opportunity to learn, to understand another perspective and to improve your communication skills? Do you resent it and lash out at the critic?
What advice would you give to those struggling with criticism?
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