Why is it difficult for people to accept responsibility for their actions? For children, is saying, “it was not my fault,” a frequent and maybe expected response to many things? Is it also a learning opportunity? As adults, does the statement often sound very shallow? Does it often lead to finger pointing and “throwing others under the bus”? Why are people so eager to blame others for their actions and decisions?
What contributes to this hesitancy to accept the consequences of our decisions and our actions? Is it due to a fear of failure or a fear of consequences or a fear of criticism? Is it a demonstration of lack of commitment?
Does it often reflect low self-esteem? Are the self-confident more accepting of responsibility?
Is it indicative of a reluctance or even a refusal to accept reality? For some is the fantasy world of denial a preferable comfort zone?
“It is only when you take responsibility for your life that you discover how powerful you truly are.” – Allanah Hunt
What does it take to be responsible for our decisions, our actions and the consequences that result? Do we respect those who take responsibility? Do we expect this in our leaders?
Are you comfortable with accepting the consequences of your actions and decisions? Do you understand that you will not always be right? Are you OK with that? Do you accept the responsibility?
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